Posted in Recipes

Decadent Mug Brownies for Two

If you are on diet, it’s time to leave this page.  Seriously.

This totally simple, easy recipe has the power to destroy even the strongest of wills. 

I’ve seen it happen. 

Don’t take the risk.

Actually I shared this recipe with a group of friends at a girls night not too long ago.  We all needed a good chocolate fix and a long chat so I whipped up a couple batches of this heavenly concoction and we all indulged ourselves.  One of these friends was so impressed that I heard husband complaining about constantly finding brownie-soiled mugs in the sink every second day a few weeks later.  She is a mother of three boys… Who can blame her?

You’ve been warned.

This recipe is done in 5 minutes and results in a rich, decadent chocolate brownie that is the perfect balance of soft and chewy.  You’ll feel like your sweet tooth is satisfied for the rest of the year, but then wake up the next morning craving another.  Perfect for a stay at home date night on a cold evening…. Mmmm….

So here’s how it’s done:

Simply throw together 60 grams soft butter, 125 ml white sugar, 30 ml cocoa, 60 ml flour, 1 egg and 1 tsp vanilla essence.  Mix together well with a fork until the mixture is mostly smooth.

Divide the mixture between two microwave safe mugs.  The mugs should be large enough for the mixture to take up about a quarter of the space (you’ll need the extra space for the brownie to rise and be topped with ice cream).  For added indulgence, press a block or two of you favourite chocolate into the centre.  My personal favourite is Cadbury’s Caramel filled chocolate.  This time I added a teaspoon of dark chocolate chips to the top of each one.


Then simply pop into the microwave for about 3 minutes.  Obviously, it will take less time if you only microwave one mug at a time, so just keep an eye on it.  My microwave is a little low on power so I recommend you put it in yours for two minutes and do a quick check every 20 seconds or so until it’s done.  You want to take it out when the sides are firm and the centre is still a bit wobbly.  Any sooner and you’ll have brownie soup.  Any later and you’ll have hard, chewy brownies that are altogether unpleasant. 

lrm_export_20170223_104703.jpgNow, let it cool for about one minute before filling the mug with your favourite ice cream.  I enjoy mint or good ol’ vanilla, but you can go ahead and be creative with your choice.  This time I tried out blueberry and vanilla.  It was heavenly!  And don’t be shy with the ice cream either.  Trust me, you’re going to need a LOT of it to balance out heat and richness of the brownie.


So there you have it!  The easiest, most delicious chocolate treat that is perfect for almost anytime. 

Let me know what you think!

Posted in Christian Living

When Quitting is Good

I’d give up chocolate – but I’m no quitter.

I wouldn’t call myself a quitter.  I like to think of myself as long suffering and endurant.  But I quit something pretty major this year – I quit my studies.

I’ll admit that it’s not as dramatic as it sounds.  I completed my bachelor’s degree in psychological counselling last year (which I’m super proud of considering that I completed my final year after having a baby in January).  So, what I really quit is the pursuit of a career.

In the field of counselling in South Africa, a number of qualifications are required to become a registered counsellor.  And that has been my dream for a long time – to become a counsellor and open my own practice.  I have basically completed the first step out of five.  Did I mention that my three year degree took me six years to complete?  I still have a long way to go.

Quitting, for me, meant not pursuing my honours degree.  It meant leaving behind formal eduation for a season – and it was hard.

I’m an academic.  I learn well and I study well.  I finished high school with flying colours and will be graduating Cum Laude in March.  I felt comfortable as a student.  I liked the feeling of learning and the sense of pride it gave me.

However, I also knew that spiritual life was suffering.  Spending hours each day with my nose buried in a textbook followed by the hours it took for me to process and grasp that information, left little time (and room in my brain) for me to work on spiritual things.  I had little desire to read my Bible and my prayer life was virtually non-existent.  I knew that I needed to make a change and the only way to do that was to take a break from my studies.

So I quit.  I never even checked to see if the application I had sent in November last year was accepted.  I closed the door and never looked back.

Nearly two months later, I can tell you that this was one of the best decisions that I have ever made.  Yeah, I can see all you feminists out there, rolling your eyes at the woman who chose not to further her education, but let me tell you – I’m happier than I’ve ever been and I am at perfect peace.


And I’ve been reminded of some things.  Some important things.  Let me share them with you:

1. Following Jesus requires sacrifice

Of course, I’ve always known this to be true.  I have made many sacrifices in my Christian walk.  But I think that sometimes we become comfortable in our sacrifice.  We parent day after day, we tithe month after month, we serve year after year.  Before we know it, sacrifice becomes simple routine and we find that we are no longer challenged in our faith.

Laying aside my education meant laying aside a dream.  Perhaps only for a season, perhaps forever.  It was risky and it was challenging.  But is faith without risk faith at all?

2. Our dreams should be laid at the feet of Jesus

It is true that God gives us dreams for our lives.  I have no doubt about that.  I have dreamed about being a counsellor since I was eleven years old.  I believe that it is a God-given desire.  However, I have realised that our dreams do not always exactly mirror the Lord’s.  Our ideas of what our lives will look like cannot match the beauty of His.  His purposes will be fulfilled in HIS way and in HIS timing.  We need to realise that sometimes sacrificing a dream is simply giving it to God to mould into what He intends it to be – more beautiful than we could ever imagine.  But this takes letting go and entrusting it to the Lord.

3.  Experience is just as important as education

I loved studying, but I realise that just because I am not enrolled at a university does not mean that I have to stop learning.  Rather, it opens up a whole new range of learning opportunities.  Opportunities to learn in different realms and in different ways.  Experiencing the world for oneself is just as valuable as learning about it.  My education, therefore, has not ceased, but rather my method of study has changed.


So sometimes quitting is good.  Sometimes quitting isn’t giving up, but rather closing one chapter and opening another.  Before me lies an open book and I can’t wait to see what God writes in it.